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Why we are so busy existing?
November 6, 2016
Every year seems to be going faster and with every year gone, another step closer to your life’s purpose has gone with it. I get the excuses don’t get me wrong, Ive been there, sometimes I still am….
‘I just don’t have time, the kids need me, I don’t have money, It’s all too late, I have priorities, I don’t have the right skills, I’m not good enough, the people I love the most don’t believe in me, who’s going to take me seriously and of course, I don’t even know if that’s what I really want.’ 15
These are all great one liners that we have all used at some point but these are all excuses that we hide behind because of our incredible fear of failure, fear of the unknown, fear of what people will think of us and fear of not knowing exactly how to get there. Let me tell you, if you don’t know how to get there, someone else will. If you don’t know how to truly define what your purpose looks like, believe me, someone else out there knows how to help you define it. If you don’t have the qualification, well gone are the days where you needed to leave your house to get it..and you know what I’m saying!! In fact, sometimes it’s not that you need a qualification as such, but rather an incredible vision and mission.
So how can you realise your purpose, take the steps to get there and start living the dream you ask??
Firstly , switch off for 15 minutes every day and by that I mean, no phone, no ipad, no laptop, no sound……just you, yourself and you!! Well, and maybe a paper and a pen!! Close your eyes and think of all the great things that your life currently offers you and what you feel grateful for. We are too busy worrying about what’s wrong, we fail to actually see what’s right.
If you could just remove all the unnecessary self talk, the material barriers, the fear….what does your purpose look like? It makes you scared thinking about it but it also makes you feel incredibly happy and your intuition will tell you it’s a YES!! I’ll share mine….
“I know my purpose is to inspire people to become the star in their life and to live their dreams. I will share my skills in health, coaching and counselling, business development and entrepreneurship with people who are ready to start living the dream and I will do this Husna style….I always dreamed of being a Talk Show Entertainer but with the purpose of benefiting mankind….you could say that I inspire to be like Oprah with a large pinch of Ellen and Australia needs their own Oprah and I believe who better…than a girl that looks like Bollywood and sounds like the star of Crocodile Dundee!!!!!! (See that was scary…but I put it out there!!)
Secondly, now that you are ready to stare your purpose in the face…own it, become it and just decide…….I’M DOING THIS!! What ever negative residue is left, throw out these miserable time wasters….don’t wait for garbage day…do it now!
Write down all the things you would need to do to make this purpose of yours reality.
Talk to people who know you well and that love you and want the best for you and share this with them, ask them for feedback..ask them for input and advice on how you can start living this. They may know someone who can help you get there…believe me, 6 degrees of separation is not a myth! Make them hold you accountable to make this happen.
Start planning. Literally write a daily planner for everything that needs to get done everyday, including the b’day present you need to go and buy for you Mum!! The most successful people are the ones who plan their day. It helps to eliminate time wasting and procrastination.
And lastly, small steps every day will lead you to that dream. Remember the story of the hare and the tortoise!
Start believing in what you are meant to be achieving. You are a star and the world wants to see you shine!!
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